Why the PGPB Mafia exists....

The Mafia came about when as a 30 something single lady, I started to slightly begin to feel sorry for myself when all my married friends Christmas cards came rolling in. I'm a very independent woman and definitely am holding out to meet the right person, but you still feel a little sad inside when you realize you just aren't there yet. Just when I started to have a little pity party with my mom over the phone, she started listing off all of my friends who were also still single and who are also nothing short of amazing.

The more I thought about the girls she was naming and how incredible they are, the more I started to really think- WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON?

I started then to think about some of my guy friends who were married or in relationships and I realized that many of the really good guys were ending up with some very crazy, high maintenance, and overly "beeochy" women who instead of making them happy seemed to put them into these eternal states of misery. They are all great guys...good hearts...woudl do anything for anyone. And yet, they seemed to sentence themselves to these relationships where they were persecuted ona daily basis. Why in the world would a guy want to be with a girl like that for any reason?

The next few weekends as I went out with my girlfriends the phenomenon became even more apparent to me. Smart, ambitious and really great guys were choosing these mindless, wacko and crazy girls right and left. Meanwhile, my group of friends were in the middle of the dance floor really getting down and having a blast because we know how to have a good time. The men along the walls standing next to their highly manicured boring girlfriend sitting on the barstool drinking her martini were watching us like puppy dogs. I know what they were thinking- "Why can't I find a girl like that?" Well....you can.

I have an ever growing stack of relationship books next to my bed, and the more I look at the titles and read what they have to say, the more angry I get about what society is trying to tell great girls about relationships. They are trying to convince them that they have some sort of issue- like being a really fantastic great woman with a lot to offer is a crime.

It's not a crime at all! It just means that you instantly limit your dating pool because if you are a woman who is really going somewhere, dating Mr.Restaurant Manager is just not going to work for you, not based on economics, but based on the fact that you deserve to sit across from a man at the dinner table who has just as much to say as you do.

This whole junk about "He's not that into you" if he doesn't call! This is true if you are a bimbo. If you are a Hooters waitress and homeboy doesn't call you, it probably is that he couldn't stand your mindless chatter. But if you are a member of the PGPB Mafia and he doesn't call- IT MEANS HE IS A MORON! I'm tired of people telling me and all my really wonderful girlfriends that if a man doesn't treat us the way a real man should that it means he isn't into us. NOPE. It means he isn't a real man.

Real men like John Wayne would have never left Katherine Hepburn sitting waiting for a phone call, or let her pay for drinks. Because John Wayne loved Katherine because she was PGPB Mafia material. Those are the kind of women that real men want and need in their life.

So if a guy says- "it's not you, it's me!" again, if you are a bimbo girl...hate to say it honey, but it's YOU! He can't stand you and if he has to hear your whiney chipmonk voice sit and complain about what so and so decided to name their celebrity baby for even 5 more minutes he is going to rip his ear drums out.

But if you are a PGPB Mafia girl and he says, "it's not you, it's me" Guess what ladies! It is HIM! He is an IDIOT!

I'm tired of watching my girlfriends try to fit this mold that society is telling us is what dating is supposed to be about.
I'm not going to change who I am so that some guy who doesn't deserve me at all eventually wins me over just because he was around the longest. I've seen friends go down that route too. And it's the highway to KISS THAT GIRLS SPIRIT GOODBYE. I have to stop it from happening to any other woman I know.

I'm an amazing woman. My friends are amazing women. And the men who deserve us are out there and they will treat us like we deserve to be treated and appreciate us for all of the wonderful things that we are because they are REAL MEN!

Unfortunately ladies, the rest of them are what I used to tell teen girls- LOOZLES.

Why are we calling it a MAFIA and not a club, or a support group for smarty girls-
because the word mafia simply implies that if your behavior is not up to the family's standards-
it ain't our problem, it's yours and you are out of the family.
And the best part about the PGPB Mafia is- when you act like that-
we don't even have to waste our time putting a horse head in your bed like in a Godfather movie....
what you are going to wake up to is WAY WORSE
it's the high maintenance, crabby, no fun, nothing to say about life, but everything to say about complaining girl
who is exactly the girl you deserve.

GREAT women aren't expecting the moon. In fact, we typically have WAY more simple expectations than the girls listed above. But there is a standard of behavior that lets us know if you are a stand up guy, or not. And only stand up guys deserve the benefits and rewards of being with a PGPB girl.

Reality is- a relationship and a life with us is wonderful, because we have qualities to offer you. As a quality and high caliber man, you have higher level needs- and just like you wouldn't take your BMW to be serviced at Joe Schmos Auto Shop--- you shouldnt take your heart and hand it to a woman who has no clue how to support you or your dreams.

Sure- every guy should date a few bimbos. As women, we date a guy here and there who we know is below our league too.
But when you get ready to really find a woman to be with, if you are a real man, you should make that decision with as much consideration as you would your business ventures. Don't invest in poor quality stock that isn't going to give you any return on your investment.

If you are a high quality guy and you sell out for a trophy wife- you may think that people are impressed with miss hot to trot on our arm. Most people are thinking--if he loses his money- she is gone. Or worse- hope they don't get divorced or she gets half. And worst part is- when you go home, you know you have nothing to talk about because she doesn't get you she is just an accessory to the house you purchased.

If you find a real woman with qualities to offer- you have the opportunity to be a power couple. The kind who enters a room
and people think "they could take over the world". And the best part of being in a supportive and mutual match like this where you both bring something to the table is, that at the end of the night or as you watch her at your company work party helping you to work the room and shmooze your best clients- you can think to yourself- "I'm the luckiest guy in the world" And you will be.

This site is to help remind GREAT WOMEN to continue to be great and to continue to shine.
To not accept this "He's not that into you" mumbo jumbo.

It is also dedicated to the GREAT MEN out there who will eventually say, "I'm the luckiest!"